There's nothing wrong or shallow about going out with someone because of their looks. I also believe that going out with someone because they have money isn't wrong either. It's natural.
Women are attracted to guys with a tan and muscles because back in our more primal days it signified some one who could provide for a family. Big muscles showed that the guy was strong and capable of hunting successfully and a tan showed that he did. Wealth is just the counter part to the old ideas of what "attraction" was.
Is going out with someone who is rich really that wrong? Your just selecting a person who can be a good provider. In fact wouldn't going out with someone just because you "click" on a personal level be the selfish thing to do? Your suiting your own needs without considering their ability to sustain a family.
I'm sorry but I can't agree, if you get together with some on BECAUSE they have money it's not an iddue of being taken care of, it's using some one. For a relationship to be healthy, no one is being used. If you're using some one, you obviously don't respect them. Futhermore, it's impossible to love some one without respecting them first.
So in my opnion, getting together with some one because of money is completely wrong and immoral.
Indeed it is rather, morally wrong, thinking with a heart. But with what the scientific mind uncovers...
I've reciently watched this program on beauty. "What Is Beauty" I think it was called. It turns out that yes, women are attracted to taut bodies, but its more on the face. The masculine angularity. It takes less than five seconds to deem a person if they're cute, hot, sexy, or whatever. Not only that, but it is usually around the time of the between Cycles... when stronger sexual urges align themselves to that form of "thinking". The instictual know-how says that this man can provide the best sperm because of the strong looks. Strong Looks = Strong Sperm = Healthy Babies. It is also found out that if/when a woman cheats, it is likely during this time.
However, over all women do like the 'geeky kid'. A slightly more fem looking male because in that sense somehow, the internal instincts know that this type of man will help provide better for the woman; although not have the 'super sperm' of the other. We are also attracted to people who look similar to our own selves. There was also this thing on attractive smells too... But I can't remember about it.
*yawn* are there any questions still?