There's a pretty direct correlation between small, positive communities that get along really well...
And large, bustling negative communities that become strict and dissonant.
It's a shame that RMRK is fairly quiet compared to a lot of others, and definitely would be good to see it bigger and busier, but keep in mind that after a certain threshold any forum does tend to fall down the route of needing to become stricter and people get further apart from each other.
Good and bad, but I lke RMRK as it is. All we need is more events or word of mouth or something~