Sexuality....

Okay well I thought this does indeed belong here and well, might be interesting. Basically I think what we should discuss what is desirable in a parter, or if ociety is too focused on sex and well sexuality in genereal.

I'll get the ball rolling. Surprisingly the first thing a woman needs to meet my standards is intellegence. That's first and foremost, looks are an added bonus. Seriously, if a woman can't give me at least semi-inellegent conversations I can't be sexually attracted to them. Even if they are 'hawt'. So every one, whats more important? A womans mind or looks?

I think mind. Just because she is hot is not a reason to like a women. Really all girls are attractive in some way or the other, having one with brains is better since she will still be attractive in her own way.

also shouldn't you add "girls what do you like in guys" lol because we have some girls here/

Well In the first paragraph i did say 'partner' so I kind of tried to be fair to female memebers.

But yeah if a girl is dumb as a box of rocks it'll just annoy me.

Dumb people make me angry. I don't mean people who literally can't help it, I mean "I skipped all of my classes because mommy/daddy will pay my way through life and I don't care that it'll make me a total frickin' airhead" dumb. I cannot STAND those people. Personally, I am looking for someone who is creative and somewhat eclectic.

I'm surprised that I'm not alone in putting a womans mind above her looks.

I don't care what they look like... good looks is low on my list of priorities for a partner. I've had my share of girlfriends that people would consider to not be good looking, but that doesn't matter, I just want someone who I can stand to be around, and if they're a moron, then all I'll be doing is trying to prove to them how moronic they are, and thus I won't be enjoying their company.

Then again, I'm engaged anyway, I shouldn't make it sound like I'm still looking. >_>

I don't care how smart she is, she's never getting anybody.

Looks don't play an important factor, but they do factor in.

So wait. Is this actually about sexuality, or not? Because it seems like we strayed from the topic title in the very first post when you mentioned stuff about intelligence being attractive.


But for me, looks are moderately important. I can't be expected to be attracted to someone if I'm not physically attracted to someone. I don't hold that in the highest regard, though. Sense of humor is definitely on the top of the list. I like a girl that laughs as much as others laugh with her.

I'm practically in love with the Eliot from Scrubs. 

Okay well I thought this does indeed belong here and well, might be interesting. Basically I think what we should discuss what is desirable in a parter, or if ociety is too focused on sex and well sexuality in genereal.

I'll get the ball rolling. Surprisingly the first thing a woman needs to meet my standards is intellegence. That's first and foremost, looks are an added bonus. Seriously, if a woman can't give me at least semi-inellegent conversations I can't be sexually attracted to them. Even if they are 'hawt'. So every one, whats more important? A womans mind or looks?

ur going to ask a bunch of computer geeky-rpg maker using nerd boys if they find looks important?  we're not exactly the pick of the litter in terms of looks (usually) ourselves, thus it is complete hypocracy to think otherwise.

wait a second...~rereads what he just wrote~ I just made myself feel bad...

You're probably just underestimating yourself.

I put girls sense of humour at teh top folowed by looks then intelligence, and alot of stuff after that. I need a girl who can keep me entertained and still be able to look at. I mean If shes pug ugly the most we can be is friends...
But ... unfortunatly im giving up on the whole love/like BF/GF thing. It may stop the *family name* generation, Ive been having bad luck with relationships latly. So its kinda left me hanging.

"hawt" girls are there to be screwed. The intelligent and nice ones are the ones for life.

Yes i agree intelligent and good.
But then there are some what you call "hawt" and int. girls in me class too..

Dumb people make me angry. I don't mean people who literally can't help it, I mean "I skipped all of my classes because mommy/daddy will pay my way through life and I don't care that it'll make me a total frickin' airhead" dumb. I cannot STAND those people. Personally, I am looking for someone who is creative and somewhat eclectic.

Signed. One of my friend is like soo...mindless. I wonder how he breathes. Thats the only thing i wonder bout him...sometimes i think how do you breathe when youre so dumb.
He;ll just pop up, irritate us annoyingly and then when we say something he says"Ur abusing me right??". HE just thinks by doing TaekWond-Do for like 2 years, he's the best of best.
Once i and my truly good friend tested his defense.


and it sucked...


badly because he didnt have the brains that i hit stomach head s h s h s s ...-.-
I feel like killing him =)

I wana do that to this ginga we have at school...
but instead we decided to get him so drunk he fell asleep then we drew penises on his face and shaved his eyebrows. lol. Stupid ginga.

LOL YOU ARE SO MEAN!
AWSOME!

I wana do that to this ginga we have at school...
but instead we decided to get him so drunk he fell asleep then we drew penises on his face and shaved his eyebrows. lol. Stupid ginga.

That's totally immature.

Yes it is a little immature but it shows that we're bad.

WTF is a ginga? And yes, I won't disagree with Djangonator, but you also have to consider that this what every American with access to any source of public media is raised on.

A ginga is a ugly person with really orange hair,
and I know its immature but it sure was fun!

Oh a GINGER.

lol pirates.

In a poll given to women all across America, about 98% stated that a sense of humor was one of the highest priorities they look for in their partners.

Just putting that out there.    It's an impressive figure.

I put girls sense of humour at teh top folowed by looks then intelligence, and alot of stuff after that. I need a girl who can keep me entertained and still be able to look at. I mean If shes pug ugly the most we can be is friends...
But ... unfortunatly im giving up on the whole love/like BF/GF thing. It may stop the *family name* generation, Ive been having bad luck with relationships latly. So its kinda left me hanging.

Aren't you, like, 17 or something? Isn't it a little too early to be giving up? At that age, most people aren't even looking for a real relationship, anyway.

You'd be surprised how important high school drama is.

That's exactly what I'm talking about.

High school relationships are all drama. Almost nobody's actually serious about their relationships in highschool, so giving up just because you've had a few bad runins is, well, idiotic.