Exactly, I want it to stop, hence why im having 2 weeks off ...
running away isn't a good way to solve any problam (xcluding a problam involving you being chased)
i posted it a bit ago, but the way i posted it , thinking about it for the 2nd time would provoke you more than make you understand.
thus i'd like to bottom line it :
people fights cus fights make them look good, or make others look stupid, in either way they win, or so they hope.
by saying not to fight, by even making this topic you provoke another fight.
if you must have a full rm chat, avoid any forums that aren't in the rm zone (general chat and spam are NOT about rm)
saying 1 line long replys to big issues is the only spamming.
bumping months old topics, is spamming.
telling people you won't help cus this was asked already somewhere in the forums, or worse, somewhere on the internet (as in telling people to google the answer) is spamming
saying something is spam without xplaining by details why no1 can possibly gain any profit from the post is spamming
lines like "i agree" that are not detailed to "i agree, i also thing blablabla though in my opinion i do believe blablabla will make it even better"
and lines like "i disagree , blabla sux " without saying why do you believe blabla sux is spamming.
and worse , insulting others without any reason is spamming
insulting others cus others did, is spamming
if you are going to insult any1 by any form, you owe that person xplaining and you better have a proof or you are... spamming.
calling something spam cus you don't agree, or cus unlike another you did not find it useful, is spamming.
creating tons of topics that are the same, misplacing topics and double posting are also spamming.
each and every one of the spamming types i listed here are causing fights, and you can't say stop cus if some1 else see person a insulting person b for no reason and cus of that he believe person a was right, that will cause more fights.
and thats why fights are out there, cus ppl spam by doing one or more things from that list i just said.
there wouldn't be fights without that spamming type, and there wouldn't be spamming if you wouldn't believe it's spamming just cus you don't like it
before you post think:
a. a person without an opinion that see you post it will believe every word you say
b. don't say anything unless you have a way to prove you are right, and if you do, post it, don't wait for the fight.
c. don't reply cus one thing cus your friend was the one saying it, only reply if you have an opinion of your own.
that was a good question gray, took some thinking and i even have to edit my answer 3 times, i wish others would have taken that much time to answer (*cough* dwarra your comment is misplaced)
actually i agree with michael, i only posted a more detailed version of it.