I see some flaws in your logic, Irock. Firstly, capitalism is rather broadly defined, but has some defining characterisitcs like private ownership of the means of production, production of goods and services for profit, the accumulation of capital, competitive markets and wage labor. The definitions of some of these aspects are defined by a country's politics, not its economic structure. In a capitalist country, the government does not interfere in firms' choice of product or service nor in the decision of individuals to choose where they work. I'd say that's pretty close if not identical to what we have in America.
The reason the government bails out big corp when they fail is so the nation's GDP doesn't nose dive and make goods and services unavailable, thus lowering the US credit rating and negatively affecting our global purchasing and borrowing power.
I contend that the economic crisis was caused by de-regulation. If it wasn't, how do explain the collapse of mortgage lenders insuring themselves against their own loans when they knew they'd fail? It had a lot to do with the Glass-Stegall act being repealed. There we have a de-regulation paving the way for the circumstances that caused the credit crunch- the worst economic crisis to hit the US since the Great Depression- all because banks and lenders saw an opportunity to gain more capital, a core tenet of capitalism.
I do agree that it was predictable, and therefore preventable, but the fact that the government took no action to do so is consistent with capitalist economics: the theory that if left alone, capitalist systems will work themselves out. As we saw, this was not done in the most recent crisis because that theory is incorrect, because the entire nation was on the verge of an economic collapse. This tells us that capitalism as we have it in the US is flawed, and socialist measures were taken to protect a capitalist system. Those measures worked- but despite the nature of those measures, they were taken to support capitalism, and do not represent the bulk of US economic policy.
If we had a mix of corporatism and socialism, then why do we not see more government involvement in career choice, a tenet of both systems, or public ownership of means of production, a tenet of socialism? Socialist economics are about the accumulation and distribution of resources, while what we have in America is simple accumulation, with more capital turning into the acquisition of more capital. If I may throw your words back at you, you don't know what socialism is.
We do have a big government, and I too would like to see it reduced. I could live with its size as long as I was confident that it existed for my benefit, which I do not beleive it does. When you say it does as it pleases, you will hear no argument from me, but you make my point for me. Corporations lobby, and they are heard. That has nothing to do with capitalism or socialism, that's just corruption.