I have a few questions for you:
What bands do you listen to? Most likely, they are only what more recent generations are falsely calling emo.
If you really listen to true emo, then why would you propagate the false use of a term to describe a type of music in a negative light?
I'm assuming from your false assumption that all people who like real emo music wear tight jeans and make out with dudes, that you obviously have no idea what you're talking about. Would you consider not further making "emo" a derogatory term, and learn about music before you mold and label your personal style?