sorry man, i copied the wrong dll file, i fixed it and now its working,
for every body else:
export all the media files to their right places
and save,
after that copy the RGSS100J.dll file from windows/system32
to the mail folder
then open the .ini file make sure that the end is like that:
RTP1=
RTP2=
RTP3=
without standart ore something else thats it, thanks a lot everybody..