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Title: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: lost on February 07, 2008, 04:32:55 PM: I'm not sure if cursing is alloud in the forum, but I think that my friend is going to Hell. For his new prospect that he is getting into dating.

Here is a little back story for you:
He used to baby sit someone and he fell for this girl's older sister. He dated the older sister for 3 or 4 years. Then she got into drugs, went nuts and well that is another story.

It is now 3 years since their breakup. He told me yesterday that he looked her up on myspace. Then he told me he looked up her little sister. The girl that he baby sat for. This girl is now 16 and he is 28. It has been 4 years since he seen her or his ex.

So while he was telling me this story he told me that his looking at her profile was just to see how she was doing, because she was like a little sister to him. I would love to believe him, but then it went from seeing how she's doing to talking about how hot she's come.

I told him not to say it. He said it anyway. He said he wouldn't mind dating her. Yep. That is where I was thinking he was going with the conversation. So he asked for my opinion how it would be to date the little sister of his ex. I've always been his moral center for the past 13 years that I've known him.

I had to point out that it is wrong for so many reasons.
1 ex factor. Sister of the ex
2 their age difference is really big
3 she's a minor he's not
4 he used to baby sit her

I would love to say that this girl would be too smart to go for him, but now that I'm older, I've discovered a lot of teen women go for guys in their 20s who are out of college. It seems to be a trend around here.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to H and here is why
Post by: Arrow on February 07, 2008, 04:41:29 PM: ...It's a social taboo, not a religious one as far as I know. And feel free to curse to your heart's content around here.

I don't think that, even though it may seem wrong to people like us, its gonna land the guy in the cooker.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Moritat on February 07, 2008, 05:34:01 PM: could have ment if he was 16 again he would date her? if not then that is really bad dude..
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: modern algebra on February 07, 2008, 05:42:39 PM: It's pretty gross. Then again, I know a girl who is dating her former teacher. Was dating him before he was her former teacher too. I think that might be even worse. I guess you can't really stop him from being a sleazy douchebag, but it does seem wrong.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Irock on February 07, 2008, 05:53:02 PM: I need pics of the girl before I can make a valid statement.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Esmeralda on February 07, 2008, 07:02:41 PM: Tell him not to stick her in that certain hole and he'll be fine np
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Moritat on February 07, 2008, 07:07:50 PM: Quote from: Raski on February 07, 2008, 07:02:41 PM
Tell him not to stick her in that certain hole and he'll be fine np

HAHAHAHA :tpg:
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Malson on February 08, 2008, 06:16:46 AM: Is he planning on having sex with her? I don't see it as much of a problem at all if sex isn't part of the picture.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Link on February 09, 2008, 01:05:09 PM: Is she emo?

i know a few emo's who go out with people waaay older.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Knownot on February 16, 2008, 12:18:47 AM: Im going to hell...

I had a masty in a church...

While i was looking at porn...

on my cellpfone...

As well as listining to a sont about the devil....

EEEP....

I couldnt help it though...

I was horny..,
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Arwym on February 17, 2008, 01:26:43 AM: By "dating her" he surely means "having sex with her", right? I think it's wrong just for that. People should stop using each other. It's selfish.
The other reason, pretty much has to do with selfishness as well: she is 16. She is a girl. Maybe not physically, but it is most probable that, mentally, she is still a girl, and will continue to be one for 8 to 10 more years (sometimes for her entire life). It takes a lot of time and experience in life to become a real adult. And the truth is, most of the people who call themselves "adults", are still mentally teenagers. So let us say, this 28-year-old friend of yours is thinking like a teenager. Typically, using the "tail", when he should be using the head.
So if your friend is intelligent enough, he will keep his "thingy" in his pants.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Knownot on February 24, 2008, 10:35:29 AM: One of my friends is 48 and he is father to a child...

The girl is only 16...

Thats legal in NZ...
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: vmv on February 25, 2008, 02:37:36 AM: I think he need to think more clearly before he chose his way..... :)
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Arrow on February 25, 2008, 01:37:40 PM: HA! vmv looks like a sleepy animal face. :D
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Knownot on March 07, 2008, 06:53:59 AM: hah VmV also looks like AMV but with the A upside down and no -
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: geargrrrl on March 11, 2008, 05:05:05 PM: I don't think it's all that bad.

1. Just because she's the sister of the ex... so what? I mean, I know some people would feel reluctant about it, but if you all just discuss this between yourselves, the ex and the ex's sister... no big deal.
2. I've seen bigger age differences.
3. Well so what if she's a minor? Besides the legal issues (which would be raised in 2 years anyways) I have seen pretty mature 14 year olds and immature 50 year olds. It's a matter of perspective.
4. ...? The fact that he used to babysit her doesn't seem like any plausible obstacle? I see where the above ones would come from but not this one, unless related to 3 and 2.

Honestly, as long as they're happy, I wouldn't oppose to them dating in the least. I don't see how the guy dating his ex-gf's sister would be zomg problem.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Knownot on March 26, 2008, 12:25:15 PM: I wana have sex with a 14 year old....

I might convince her to send me nude pxts of her...

Im sure she will do it...
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Sabre_of_Pain on April 10, 2008, 10:49:31 PM: hey just came back to the forum today so you know im a little late with this post but whatever

back in whats commonly referred to as the dark times older men would almost always be with a much younger woman

i'm not religious but i do not believe from what i know (which isn't much) that it isn't against any of the major religions laws

Quote from: Angelic_Diablo
Im going to hell...

I had a masty in a church...

While i was looking at porn...

on my cellpfone...

As well as listining to a sont about the devil....

EEEP....

I couldnt help it though...

I was horny..,

thats pretty bad i think you have a problem if you need to jack off every time you feel horny you should never do that in any place other than your room when nobody is there or in a bathroom

Quote from: Angelic_Diablo
One of my friends is 48 and he is father to a child...

The girl is only 16...
my father is 46 and dates chicks that are in their early twenties

Quote from: Arwym Starlight
mentally, she is still a girl, and will continue to be one for 8 to 10 more years (sometimes for her entire life).
this is true my aunt is in her late 40s has 3 children and is still dating, spends her time with friends all day while leaving her children at home without a baby sitter has been married twice spends thousands of dollars on her appearance and puts it all on her credit card, she is about 40,000$ in debt how she managed to get the bank to keep giving her money? well i think you can guess judging by how immature she is, she even talks with a squeaky high pitched voice and jumps around when she gets exited like a japanese school girl (its kind of creepy considering how old she is)

honestly i don't think its that bad i have a friend (of sorts) she has had countless boyfriends most of them over 20 she had a child with one of them and he abandoned her afterwards so she put it up for adoption and they got back together again (wtf?) and decided to have another child (WTF!?!?!?!?) and so now shes pregnant again with the child of the guy who abandoned her on the 1st child
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: slayer666 on April 11, 2008, 03:50:16 PM: It could be worse,I mean he could still be babysitting her.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: The Great Leon on June 04, 2008, 05:30:41 AM: Interesting
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: lost on June 25, 2008, 12:16:21 PM: Here is an update... he has been "hanging out" with the 16 year old for a month now. Sleeps over at her house, met all of her friends. Says he has slept... as in zzzz.... with her all the time. Her parents don't care... I wonder if her super jealous sister will care? :-)

As for the person that talked about their 40 year old aunt... I have this feeling that women stay their mental state whenever they get married. Like an immature 19 year old gets married at 19, she stays the same until she gets divorced because she has a husband that makes it ok for her to stay the same and not grow. Kind of like men want to keep their women the same, while women want their men to change.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Holkeye on June 26, 2008, 10:11:24 AM: Good God. This is disgusting. The dude is 28. The girl is 16. I'm 25, and I don't think I could even stand going out with a 16 year old. In my opinion, it sounds like he is just setting himself up to fall. If you believe that they've "slept in the same bed" and nothing at all has happened, then you're not that bright.

Summary: Your friend is about to statutory rape someone.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Malson on June 26, 2008, 12:45:20 PM: Quote from: Deep-Sea Dragonfish on June 26, 2008, 10:11:24 AM
If you believe that they've "slept in the same bed" and nothing at all has happened, then you're not that bright.

It's entirely possible. My sister sleeps in the same bed with her boyfriend all the time and they've never had sex.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: maia on June 26, 2008, 02:50:12 PM: I am super virgin (up until 18 months ago . mistake), and I've been able to sleep in the same bed with nothing happening other than sleep, talk and snuggling.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Dertt on June 26, 2008, 03:00:45 PM: I heard Hell's rather nice this time of year.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Holkeye on June 26, 2008, 10:46:54 PM: First off, I knew when writing my last post people were going to assume that doing something sexual automatically = sex.

Second, the dude is 28. If he is going to sleep in the same bed with this chick all the time for two years until she's legal, then he is a sad, sad man. Think of all the of-age girls he could be not having sex with. He's just wasting his time.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Malson on June 27, 2008, 12:22:56 AM: Quote from: Deep-Sea Dragonfish on June 26, 2008, 10:46:54 PM
First off, I knew when writing my last post people were going to assume that doing something sexual automatically = sex.

How isn't it? Whether the penis goes in the vagina or not, it's the same hormonal bullshit.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Holkeye on June 27, 2008, 04:38:21 AM: Getting a blowjob is sexual, but isn't sex. Unless you're an uppity cunt and want to say "oral sex is sex".

Dry-humping is sexual, but it isn't sex.

There are many other sexual things that aren't sex.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Kashii on June 28, 2008, 12:20:07 AM: Why are you all fag fish that is what I want to know.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Dertt on June 28, 2008, 01:29:23 AM: Quote from: Kashii on June 28, 2008, 12:20:07 AM
Why are you all fag fish that is what I want to know.

FISH MONTH.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Moss. on June 28, 2008, 01:56:02 AM: It's already over, though.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Malson on June 28, 2008, 01:58:31 AM: Quote from: Deep-Sea Dragonfish on June 27, 2008, 04:38:21 AM
Getting a blowjob is sexual, but isn't sex. Unless you're an uppity cunt and want to say "oral sex is sex".

Dry-humping is sexual, but it isn't sex.

There are many other sexual things that aren't sex.

You're arguing that an act between two people, usually resulting in one or both reaching orgasm, isn't sex. You're right in that biologically, it isn't considered to be, but what the hell does it matter? The same thing happens in the end regardless of whether it's technically sexual intercourse or not.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Kashii on June 28, 2008, 02:57:44 AM: Ok, I no longer want to know.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: lost on June 28, 2008, 01:31:13 PM: I have had plenty of arguements with plenty of women... oral sex is sex... oral sex is sexual... oral sex is foreplay. From the virgins, I've heard, oral sex is sex, from the sluts I've dated I've heard oral sex is foreplay. Its pretty interesting, makes me wonder how much oral sex the virgins have had.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Leventhan on June 28, 2008, 02:49:25 PM: Sex is this.
Spoiler for:
(https://rmrk.net/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fupload.wikimedia.org%2Fwikipedia%2Fcommons%2F8%2F86%2FSperm-egg.jpg&hash=90dcf24a9c69c2cbead9ac8b2c591c1332748f49)
It's true.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Holkeye on June 28, 2008, 06:16:32 PM: Either way you think of it, the argument is pointless. What I was trying to get at was that your friend is a creep.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Dwarra? on June 28, 2008, 08:52:11 PM: Quote from: Deep-Sea Dragonfish on June 28, 2008, 06:16:32 PM
creep
(https://rmrk.net/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi30.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fc324%2Fbetaz0%2FIDONTBELONGHERE.jpg&hash=a84f7f03b09055f16321c5525ed9324f48daa99f)

I honestly don't think that the parents are okay with this relationship
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Code Geass on June 28, 2008, 08:56:35 PM: it's not right, but I mean, the thing is, most people do go to hell, thats already said so in the bible by mary, but beside that point.

At this point you have blame both your friend and the girl, I mean, her parents must be doing something wrong that their first daughter would go into drugs and their second would actaully date someone 12 yrs older than her.

You just have to tell him it's wrong, beyond that, theres nothing much left, life goes son like that.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: lost on July 08, 2008, 01:10:02 PM: I wanted to update everyone that as of 4th of July, his ex girlfriend. An absolutely gorgeous woman, a former stripper found out about him and her sister. They haven't had sex according to both the sister and my friend (our friendship is fading). She keyed his face. He needed to get 8 stitches across his cheek.

But you know what; this just drives a wedge between the two sisters. It makes the younger sister want him more.
Title: Re: So I think that my friend is going to Hell and here is why
Post by: Holkeye on July 09, 2008, 06:03:53 AM: Quote from: Code Geass on June 28, 2008, 08:56:35 PM
it's not right, but I mean, the thing is, most people do go to hell, thats already said so in the bible by mary, but beside that point.

What the fuck?

Anyway, I'm sort of glad that his face got keyed. Actually, I'm really glad. That's pretty fucking awesome. Now when people ask about the scar, he either has to make something up, or tell them how much of a perv he is.