Okay, first of all, I've got a crush on 5 different girls. But only 1 of them am I serious about.
For those of you who've known me for a while, it's the one I used to date, "let me off easy", and has denied me before.
I want to ask her out to an event (won't say what for security reasons) but I've never asked her out face to face before - probably why she denied me before. My family is nagging me to ask her out.
Now I'm usually a calm person, and I don't get nervous easy, and I can be near the other 4 girls I like and talk with them no problem. She's the only one that I just feel like a "myriad of butterflies are impaling themselves upon the walls of my stomach". (Quoted from a lit journal entry I had to write) And, I like it.
Any help?
Your family knows? I don't tell any of my friends or family about that side of my life, and people sort of just discover stuff.
What's your ultimate goal? I mean, you want to end up being with her in a relationship? Or you'd just like to have her come along with you and basically just have a good time?
My goal is to be in a relationship with her.
And I told my family like 3 years ago, they haven't dropped it since.
I'll never reveal my secrets.
Metrosexual.
:uncomfortable:
The point is to help the great scripter lol.
Quote from: Tsunokiette on October 05, 2006, 11:26:10 PM
Now I'm usually a calm person, and I don't get nervous easy, and I can be near the other 4 girls I like and talk with them no problem.
Someone daring and calm and not nervous like me.
Good to see that lol
OK if you want, tell that your brother is in India and after 2 weeks an occasion of Diwali is coming (you know where we burst crackers n all) so ask her out on that just for fun. But take it from one topic to this
OR
When schools over, ask her for her book, and write something make her wait, and look at here nose in eye..i mean eye in eye and ask her.
Me?
I may like this girl..but i hate her..
I'm much like Silvy. I usually don't reveal my sexual life to anybody. I say, just ask her out. She's only human.
Dating advice from a girl omg this is going to be exciting for you all woot.
First dates are awkward. Very awkward. Rather than asking a girl for a one-on-one first date from the very beginning, invite her to join you as well as a group of friends. Include some other girls in that group so she doesn't think you're gonna rape her or something. Even better, tell her she can bring along a friend or two of her own. I wouldn't go over a group of five people, though. Make it more of a comfortable, friendly setting more than a date. Walk around a mall or something, or visit a park. If you live in a safe neighborhood then it's okay to just walk around town, too. Include the whole group in your conversations, but if you specifically want to hear her thoughts then feel free to ask her with something along the lines of "What do you think?" if you find that she isn't actively including herself on her own.
Go on a few more outings along those lines, and only after you're fairly certain that she will be comfortable in your presence, ask her out on a one-on-one date. A simple "Hey, Sally, I was hoping to see [insert movie title here], and was wondering if you would want to see it with me?" will suffice. Worst-case scenario: she's seen it already, in which case ask her if there's a movie she would want to see. Agree with her, even if it's a movie you feel you will be bored with. ABSOLUTE worst-case scenario: she says no. This is not as bad as it could be, because at this point you can say your other friends are coming, too, so it won't be awkward, and maybe she'll change her mind. Then you run home and call up your friends and be all like "omg emergency come with me to this movie."
ON THE SUBJECT OF DINNER & A MOVIE: "Dinner & a movie" is not the best date idea. You can't speak to each other during the movie, which might lead to awkward silences. A better option is "Movie & a dinner," so that you see the movie beforehand, then have the entirety of the dinner to talk about it, so you have at least that bit of common ground to hold a conversation about. Of course, the guy pays for the meal (the movie tickets too if he's a real gentlemen), but if she offers, split it in a way that you will be paying for the majority.
When you take her home, walk her to her door if you feel it's necessary. If not, (but you probably want to walk her to the door anyway), drop her off in front of her house, but don't drive away until you see that she is safely inside. This is common courtesy, and goes for picking up & dropping off friends of either gender.
If she asks how you became such a gentlemen, you can say "Some geeky girl on the Internet told me."
Quote from: Yossy on October 06, 2006, 12:46:20 PM
Dating advice from a girl omg this is going to be exciting for you all woot. Rather than asking a girl for a one-on-one first date from the very beginning, invite her to join you as well as a group of friends. Include some other girls in that group so she doesn't think you're gonna rape her or something.
If she asks how you became such a gentlemen, you can say "Some geeky girl on the Internet told me."
1. LOL 14 lol
2. Geeky lol? i hate it when ppl call emselves geeks. Let the flamers do that lol...
3. "Hey, Sally, I was hoping to see HOW TO BURN YOUR ************* DOG, and was wondering if you would help me burn my dog after its over. Then we both can eat the roast. you can have my special sauce
LOL!
Quote from: Blizzard on October 06, 2006, 11:45:30 AM
I'm much like Silvy. I usually don't reveal my sexual life to anybody. I say, just ask her out. She's only human.
I didnt even tell the girl i like her lol..
but surprisingly i hate her..
And we dont do stuff like you guys here, we keep it to ourselves..
I never dated loL!
See in this world there are 2 types of boys and 2 types of girls-
BOYS=
1. Those who dare, dont get nervous, and are calm. Eggsample- Tsunokiette, Me, You(in the sense the guy who's reading), and him..(whoever)
2. Those who are scared, get worried, and CARE A LOT and are very very like OH A DATE OH A DATE DAMNIT! Eg. you (whoever) him (whoever) his best friend (whoever)
Girls(3 kinds, the fourth never happens)=
1. Those who say no.
2. Those who say yes.
3. Those who say yes then no.
4. Those who no, but then say yes.
I still tell, if your really what you told us scripty friend, do the book thing.
But remember, do the ROUND AND ROUND until you reach the point thing
It´s quite funny, since I was the second type of guy once. But I turned over. =P
I was always the first.
Yeah, i say onething when some guys whos not much friend tells me he slipped on the floor and sprained their ankle
"I dont give a damn"
Quote from: Yossy on October 06, 2006, 12:46:20 PM
Include some other girls in that group so she doesn't think you're gonna rape her or something.
Do girls actually worry about that on dates? It's a shame that things have to be that way. =/
Also, I seriously hate being a gentleman. I do it anyways, of course, but I hate doing it. It feels false, and pretentious. I understand that people like a treat, and those little things are nice, but it takes to give. If you're always a gentleman it's always give give give. Sometimes it would be nice to get something in return. Some people find satisfaction in simply making someone else happy. I guess I'm just a cold hearted guy.
You're such a heartless bastard, Gilga. I'm helping people as much as I can.
Watch Hitch, I'm not even joking.
EYe In eye- Blind +BOOM relationships..
you know..cargos
hmm....how about saying you and some friends are having a 'get together' at the movies and then when she gets there say your friends couldn't make it and then walla! A date~
~Winged
Ah, yes - our caveman ancestors in the good old times knew how to solve those problems: just grab a huge club and clobber her senseless. Done. instant love or something.
Nowadays, things are so much more complicated.
Some men still successfully apply the aforementioned procedure. I personally wouldn't reccomend it.
Wow, that's quite a lot of advice. (O_o)
...
Wow.
*applies advice*
Just be brave and never worry about what people think
Quote from: GilgameshRO on October 06, 2006, 03:26:21 PM
Also, I seriously hate being a gentleman. I do it anyways, of course, but I hate doing it. It feels false, and pretentious. I understand that people like a treat, and those little things are nice, but it takes to give. If you're always a gentleman it's always give give give. Sometimes it would be nice to get something in return. Some people find satisfaction in simply making someone else happy. I guess I'm just a cold hearted guy.
i thought you were sposed to do it cuz girls is more important than boys??